Maninzi amalungiselelo angena ekwenzeni iintsuku zomtshato zingabinasiphako. Kodwa kuthatha impazamo enye okanye ezimbini ukonakalisa owona mzuzu. Eyona nto imbi kakhulu, uya kukhumbula ixesha elide, nokuba ungumtshakazi, umyeni, okanye undwendwe.
Iifoto kunye neevidiyo ezibambe ezi mpazamo zinokuba nzima ukuba ziboniswe ekhaya okanye zithunyelwe kwimidiya yoluntu. Abatshatileyo, ngakumbi abatshakazi, bafuna ukwenza yonke into ingabikho kusuku lwabo olukhulu, ukusuka kumsitho, ulwamkelo, uluhlu lweendwendwe, kunye nezikhumbuzo, ukuya kumxholo, ikhowudi yokunxiba, kunye nokuseta, phakathi kwezinye izinto. Ukuba ungoyena mntu ubalaseleyo okanye isicakakazi esihloniphekileyo, kulindeleke ukuba wamkele iindwendwe, uncedise isibini esitshatileyo ngeemeko ezingxamisekileyo, kwaye ukhokele abanye oomolokazana kunye nabakhaphi.
Kuya kufuneka uyazi kwakhona, ukuba unganikezeli njani i-toast. Okwangoku, ukuba uyingxenye ye-entourage okanye undwendwe, kufuneka ulandele imithetho ebhaliweyo nengabhalwanga ukuba wonke umntu agcine yonke into ehambelanayo-ibaluleke kakhulu, imfashini yomtshato. Zihlolisise ezi mpazamo zefashoni zingezantsi, ukuze uhlale unxibe kwaye ubhalwe ngendlela efanelekileyo kuwo wonke umtshato oya kuwo, kuquka nowakho.
1. Ukunxiba iGown emhlophe
Enye yezinto ezikrwada nabani na anokuzenza ngexesha lomtshato kukukhuphisana nesimbo somtshakazi. Oku kunokubandakanya ukunxiba itiara, isithsaba seentyatyambo, isinxibo esibaxayo, okanye ukuhombisa iinwele ngendlela enomtsalane emehlweni. Ngokubanzi, kuya kuba kuhle ukuba ukhwebuke kuyo nantoni na eya kwenza umsitho ngakumbi ngawe kunesibini. (3)
Kodwa eyona nto imbi kakhulu kukunxiba ilokhwe emhlophe okanye nantoni na efana nengubo yomtshato. Umhlophe uthathwa njengogcinelwe umtshakazi kuyo yonke imbali yefashoni yomtshakazi, ngakumbi kwinkcubeko yasentshona. Ke ngoko, ukunxiba into ejongeka ngathi yingubo yomtshakazi yindlela yokuba i-spotlight kwi-protagonist ephambili yesiganeko. (2)
2. Oomakhwekhwetha Banxibe Into Kakhulu Attention-grabbing
Ukuba ungumtshakazi, unokuziva ungathandeki malunga nokunxiba njengaye wonke umntu. Izibini zidla ngokucwangcisa umxholo wombala wendwendwe kwaye zinike impelesi kunye nabakhaphi abafanele bayinxibe. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba abayifuni, zama ukujonga ukuba ngaba bayayivuma umbala okanye ukusika kwengubo oyikhethileyo.Enye into omele uyiphephe kukuya ngaphaya kwe-makeup yakho ukuze ugqame. Ukuba umtshakazi uthi ngokucacileyo, iimpelesi kufuneka zinamathele kwi-nudes kunye ne-toned-down pinks; kufuneka utsibe i-lipstick ebomvu.
3. Iindwendwe Zinxibe Njengomtshakazi
Kwiindwendwe, zama ukufumanisa ukuba impelesi ziya kunxiba njani ukunqanda ukunxiba njengaye. Musa ukugqoka nantoni na emthunzini ofanayo okanye ukusika ukuze ukhuseleke. Iqela lomtshato ligcinelwe abona bahlobo basondeleyo kunye nosapho lwesi sibini. Ukunxiba njengabo kunokubangela ukuba kubonakale ngathi utsiba imida, nokuba awuzimiselanga. (2)
Kungcono ukulandela ikhowudi yokugqoka ukuba kukho nayiphi na. Ukuba isiganeko asicacanga kakhulu malunga nemibala, unokufuna ukuya kwinto engathathi hlangothi, njengobunqunu okanye i-shades engabonakali ifana kakhulu ne-entourage. Emva kokufumanisa, umxholo oza kusebenzisa oomolokazana, banqamle abo baphuma kuluhlu lwakho kwaye uzame ezinye izitayile. Iibhulukhwe kunye neelokhwe zemidi ezinemikhono emide zihlala zikhuselekile kwaye zikhethwa ngobuchule kwimitshato emininzi.
4. Ukungayithathi Ngokubalulekileyo iKhowudi yesinxibo
Ukuzikhulula kwikhowudi yokunxiba yomtshato kunokwenza imeko ibenzima kumntu wonke. Isenokude ibangele ukuba isibini sibe noxinezeleko, ngakumbi ukuba unxibe into enxamnye neenkolelo zaso. Khumbula ukuba imitshato inokuba yezenkcubeko, yonqulo, okanye zombini.Nokuba awunazo iinkolelo ezifanayo, ukuhlonipha isibini, ngakumbi ngosuku lwabo olukhulu, kubalulekile. Kodwa ukuba ulandela uqheliselo oluthile lonqulo nesithethe oluya kuchaphazela indlela onxiba ngayo, isenokuba libali elahlukileyo. Zama ukufikelela kwisibini kwaye uxoxe ngempahla oceba ukuyinxiba ukuze bakunike uphawu lwabo lokuvuma. (2)
Ngayiphi na indlela, kungcono ukuza kumhlaba ophakathi okanye ulandele ikhowudi yokugqoka eboniswe kwiimeko ezininzi. Ukuba isibini sasisenza isicelo esilula ngombala, amasikwe, neepateni, iindwendwe zazinokufumana okanye ziboleke iimpahla ezifanelekileyo nezihlangu zombhiyozo othile.
5. Ukungathathi Iintyatyambo ezifanelekileyo
Kukho iintlobo ezininzi zeentlobo kunye nezimbo ze-bouquet onokukhetha kuzo. Njengomtshakazi, kuyahenda ukukhetha olona hlobo luhle oluya kuhambelana nesinxibo sakho okanye iintyatyambo ozithandayo. Kodwa isenokungabi lula kangako kuba nokhetho lweentyatyambo lunokufanekisela into ongafuni ukuyithetha. (1)
Ngokomzekelo, i-carnations enemigca ithetha ukwala, i-cyclamen ithetha ukuphelisa ubudlelwane, i-foxgloves ithetha ukunganyaniseki kunye neenyibiba eziorenji zimele inzondo. Ezinye iintyatyambo ezininzi zinokuba nentsingiselo engalunganga, kwaye unokufuna ukuziphepha, ngakumbi ukuba uneenkolelo. (5) Kwinqaku elahlukileyo, ezinye zinokuba nevumba elimnandi kwaye zibangele ukungezwani komzimba kakhulu phantsi kwendlela okanye ngexesha lolwamkelo.
Luluvo olulungileyo ukunciphisa ukhetho lwakho kwezo zingenavumba elimnandi kakhulu. Ukuba iimpelesi ziphethe iintyatyambo, babuze ukuba ngaba abafuni naluphi na uhlobo ukuze wenze utshintsho oluyimfuneko. 1 Ukugqiba ngesipha esiqhwalelayo kwaye esifayo isenokungabi yeyona nto ilungileyo yokujonga umtshakazi oneentloni. (1)
6. Ukungabi Nezihlangu ezongezelelweyo
Usenokuba unengxaki yokungabi nazihlangu ebusuku okanye uzisole ngokunxiba izithende ezingakhululekanga. Ngaphandle kweeflethi zokugcina, kungafuneka ujongane neentlungu ixesha elide okanye uzinze ukuhamba unganxibanga zihlangu. Nokuba ungumtshakazi, uyinxalenye yabahambi, okanye ulundwendwe, kubalulekile ukuba unxibe izihlangu ezifanelekileyo kweso sihlandlo, kodwa kuzisa iperi eyongezelelweyo yokuthuthuzela.Ngexesha lomsitho kunye nemifanekiso, ukunamathela kuyo nantoni na oyicwangcisiweyo malunga nempahla yakho kufuneka ilungile. Kodwa xa ingakhululekanga, luluvo olulungileyo ukutshintshela kwiiflethi ezitofotofo, ngakumbi ukuba uthanda ukudanisa. (4)
Ukuqukumbela
Iintsuku zomtshato, ngakumbi ezemveli, zinokuba nzima ukunxiba. Kodwa inye into ekufuneka uyikhumbule kukunxiba ngokwendima yakho ngaloo mini. Nokuba uyimpelesi okanye ulundwendwe, isibini esithembisene ngomtshato sinolindelo oluthile omele uphile ngalo ngosuku lwaso olukhulu. Ukuba ungumtshakazi, kuya kufuneka uqiniseke ukuba igawuni yakho yile nto uyifunayo, ikhululekile ukuyinxiba, kwaye ihambelana nomxholo opheleleyo womtshato wakho.
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