Ufumene eNye kwaye nobabini aninakulinda ukuchitha bonke ubomi benu kunye! Cua iintsimbi zomtshato! Yima - ngubani obhukishe abo?
Lungela. Ukusukela ngalo mzuzu, uguqa ngedolo ukuya kumdaniso wokugqibela, ukucwangcisa umtshato wakho kuya kudla iiyure zakho ezininzi zokuvuka.
Ukusuka ekukhetheni isinxibo esifanelekileyo somtshakazi ukuya ekufumaneni umzobi onetalente ukwenza izimemo ezintle, ngokuqinisekileyo kuninzi okufuneka ukwenze xa ucwangcisa umtshato wakho. Ngethamsanqa, eli nqaku lenzelwe ukunceda abatshakazi ukuba bacwangcise umtshato omangalisayo kunye noxinzelelo oluncinci kangangoko kunokwenzeka.
1. Yenza uHlahlo-lwabiwo-mali olungaxoxisiyo
Khangela uhlahlo lwabiwo-mali oluyinyani. Yiba nengxubusho—okanye eziliqela—neqabane lakho kunye nabaphi na abazali abasenokuba baba negalelo. Yenza uphando lwe-ballpark ukuze ufumane ingqiqo yexabiso lezinto. Yiba nengqiqo malunga nenani enifika kulo nonke, kwaye nibe ngqale malunga nokuba liya kwahlulwa njani.Akukho mntu ufanele angene ematyaleni ukuze akwazi ukuxhasa umtshato. (Ucingo loMtshato lunemithetho eluncedo yokucwangcisa uhlahlo lwabiwo-mali).
2. Beka phambili eyona nto ibalulekileyo kuwe kwaye ulibale ngokuseleyo
Kufanelekile ukuphinda: Beka phambili. Uhlahlo lwabiwo-mali lwalo naluphi na ubungakanani lunokuqhuma xa uluhlu okufuneka ube nalo luba lufifi. Kodwa ukubeka phambili kudlulela ngaphaya kohlahlo lwabiwo-mali. Wena, iqabane lakho, kunye nabo nabaphi na abazali ababandakanyekayo elowo uya kuba neengcinga zakhe malunga nendlela izinto ezifanele zihambe ngayo. Thetha ngayo-ngokuzolileyo-kwaye wenze isigqibo ngeyona nto ibalulekileyo, kwaye yintoni ozimisele ukuyekelela kuyo.
3. Lawula Okulindelekileyo.
Kwakho, iqabane lakho, abazali, abantakwenu, ootatomkhulu noomakhulu, abahlobo, ufumana umbono. Imitshato yesiNtu yenzelwe ukubandakanya wonke umntu obalulekileyo ebomini bakho, ngoko kungokwemvelo ukuba abantu bavuyiswe ukufumanisa indima yabo ngosuku olukhulu kunye nayo yonke into ekhokelela kuyo. Ngokukodwa ukuba uceba umtshato wakho ngokwakho, kutheni ungadluliseli imincili yomntu wonke kwimisebenzi oyinikiweyo?Nangona kunjalo, zilungiselele ukuba izinto zingahambi kanye njengoko ubucinga. Abantu banokongeza uchuku lwabo kumsebenzi wabo. Roll ngayo. Ngaba uMama wakho uyakuthanda ukunitha? Ngaba uMama wakhe wenza umsebenzi wezandla? Cela uMama wakho ukuba enze izinto ezintle, kwaye ucele uMama wakhe ukuba enze incwadi yeendwendwe.
Uninzi lwabantu luya kuvuyiswa ukuba luthathe inxaxheba kusuku olukhulu. Kwaye ukubagcina bexakekile-ingakumbi oomama-kwaye kuthetha ukuba uya kufumana i-imeyile embalwa malunga nokuma kweepuni ze-dessert, nokuba iirebhoni zeprogram zifuna ukugotywa, kwaye yintoni umthunzi weendlovu umgijimi we-aisle kufuneka abe.
4. DIY, Ngokwenyani.
Akuzange kubekho ithuba elingakumbi lokuzenza ngokwakho kunokuba ucwangcisa umtshato wakho. Umbuzo ngulo: ngaba oko yeyona ndlela yokusetyenziswa kwexesha? Emva kokwabela iiprojekthi kusapho kunye nabahlobo, buyela umva kwaye uvavanye. Ngaba ndilungile kwiiprojekthi ze-DIY? Ngaba ndifuna ukubopha i-sprig yerosemary kwiimenyu ezingama-247? Kwaye kwinqanaba elikhulu, ngaba ndifuna uxanduva lokurenta uphando lokukhanyisa, iitafile, izitulo, izahluli zamagumbi, kunye nokunye okunjalo?
Ukuba impendulo kuyo nayiphi na kwezi yi-HAYI evakalayo, ngoko uya kufuna ukucinga ngononophelo malunga nokuvolontiya kwiiprojekthi ze-DIY.
Kwabo banomdla wokunika iiprojekthi zomtshato ze-DIY ezimbalwa, cinga ukusebenzisa i-injini yokukhangela imifanekiso efana ne-Pinterest okanye imifanekiso kaGoogle ukuze uvumbulule iiprojekthi ze-DIY ezimbalwa ezilula kodwa ezinefuthe.
5. Khetha iNdawo eyiyo.
Emva kokuba iingxoxo zohlahlo lwabiwo-mali zilungisiwe, khetha indawo yakho. Yiyo-ngethemba-indleko enkulu oya kujongana nayo, kwaye iya kuba yinto enkulu kunazo zonke ezinye izigqibo ekufuneka zenziwe.
Iindawo zomtshato ezingezizo ezesintu zingumsindo kade, kodwa zinokuba ngamaphupha amabi. Iindawo zemveli zineziseko ezifana neetafile kunye nezitulo ezibekwe kwindawo eyongeziweyo kwizinto ezisisiseko ezingacacanga njengeetafile zekhadi lendawo, i-coat check, kunye nezinye izinto eziyimfuneko ongayi kucinga kabini ngazo.
Iindawo zemveli nazo zikholisa ukuba nomququzeleli wesiganeko onokuba sisixhobo esiyimfihlo, ngakumbi ukuba awusebenzisi umcwangcisi womtshato. Endaweni yokujikeleza amavili akho uqamba indawo, cinga ngokujikeleza amavili akho okongeza intsingiselo. Choreograph umdaniso weqela, ukubuyisela isithethe sosapho okanye ezimbini, uchithe ixesha ubuza uMakhulu ngomtshato wakhe.
6. Gqiba ngeGosa.
Ubulungisa boXolo. Umntu wonqulo. Umhlobo othathe loo khosi ye-intanethi. Nokuba ukhetha bani na, qiniseka ukuba ziyafumaneka ngomhla wendawo. Hlawula idiphozithi ukuba kuyimfuneko, kwaye uphumle lula. Esinye isizathu sokubhukisha igosa kwangethuba kukuba ngokuxhomekeke kulungiselelo lwakho, unokuhlangana nabo amatyeli amaninzi phambi kosuku olukhulu. Ukubhukisha kwangaphambili kuya kuvumela iintlanganiso ezicwangcisiweyo kunye nendawo yokuhlenga-hlengisa.Amagosa anokunceda ukunika indawo kunye nesikhokelo kwizihloko ezibalulekileyo. Ngaba utshintshe igama lakho? Nifuna abantwana nobabini? Zingaphi? Niza kuzilawula njani iimali zenu kunye? Ngaba ubhala ezakho izifungo?
7. Yigcine Ilula
Nanini na umntu esithi kuwe: “Kufuneka ube no-X,” okanye “kufuneka wenze u-Y,” ungamhoyi. Asiyonyani nje. Ngethuba nje izinto ezisisiseko zigutyungelwe, ungavumeli nabani na ukuba akuxhaphaze malunga nezongezelelweyo. Kwaye kule mini kunye neminyaka, ukucwangciswa komtshato kuninzi okongeziweyo. Musa ukukhohliswa. Wena kunye neqabane lakho niqala ubomi benu bonke kunye. Yonwabele kwaye musa ukubila izinto ezincinci ... kakhulu!
Ukuqukumbela
Ngokulandela iingcebiso kunye nezicwangciso ezichazwe kweli nqaku, uya kuba usendleleni eya kulonwabo lwasemva komtshato. Khumbula ukuba ukuseta uhlahlo lwabiwo-mali olucacileyo kunye nolindelo olucacileyo kunye nabantu abaphambili zezona ndlela zokuthintela uxinzelelo olungeyomfuneko olunxulumene nomtshato.