Maningi amalungiselelo angena ekwenzeni izinsuku zomshado zingabi nasici. Kodwa kuthatha iphutha elilodwa noma amabili ukonakalisa umzuzu wangempela. Ingxenye embi kakhulu ukuthi, cishe uzoyikhumbula isikhathi eside, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ungumlobokazi, umkhwenyana, noma isivakashi.
Izithombe namavidiyo abambe lawa maphutha kungase kube nzima ukuvezwa ekhaya noma ukuthunyelwa ezinkundleni zokuxhumana. Imibhangqwana, ikakhulukazi omakoti, ifuna ukwenza yonke into ilunge ngosuku lwayo olukhulu, kusukela kumcimbi, iresiphi, uhlu lwezivakashi, nezikhumbuzo, kufika endikimbeni, ikhodi yokugqoka, nokusetha, phakathi kwezinye izinto. Uma uyindoda noma incekukazi ehloniphekile, kulindeleke ukuthi wamukele izivakashi, usize umbhangqwana othembisene umshado ngezimo eziphuthumayo ezincane, futhi uhole ezinye izimpelesi nabakhaphi.
Kufanele wazi futhi, ukuthi unganikezi kanjani i-toast. Phakathi naleso sikhathi, uma uyingxenye yezithunywa noma isivakashi, kufanele ulandele imithetho ebhaliwe nengabhaliwe ukuze wonke umuntu agcine yonke into ivumelana—okubaluleke kakhulu, imfashini yomshado. Hlaziya lawa maphutha emfashini ngezansi, ukuze uhlale ugqokile futhi ufakwe isitayela ngendlela efanele kuwo wonke umshado oya kuwo, okuhlanganisa nowakho.
1. Ukugqoka Ijazi Elimhlophe
Enye yezinto ezimbi kakhulu umuntu angayenza ngesikhathi somshado ukuncintisana nesitayela sikamakoti. Lokhu kungase kuhlanganise ukugqoka i-tiara, umqhele wezimbali, ingubo ewubukhazikhazi, noma ngisho nokulungisa izinwele okukhanga kakhulu amehlo. Ngokuvamile, kungaba ngcono ukugwema noma yini ezokwenza umcimbi ube ngaphezu kwakho umbhangqwana. (3)
Kodwa okubi kakhulu ukugqoka ingubo emhlophe noma yini efana nengubo yomshado. Okumhlophe kubhekwe njengokugcinelwe umakoti kuwo wonke umlando wemfashini yomakoti, ikakhulukazi isiko laseNtshonalanga. Ngakho-ke, ukugqoka okuthile okubukeka njengengubo kamakoti kuwuhlobo lokweba ukugqama kumlingiswa oyinhloko womcimbi. (2)
2. Omakoti Bagqoke Okuthile Okunakwa Kakhulu
Uma uyimpelesi, ungase uzizwe ungakhululekile ngokugqoka njengawo wonke umuntu. Imibhangqwana ivame ukuhlela itimu yombala yabahambeli futhi banikeze izinto okufanele zigqokwe izimpelesi nabakhwenyana. Kodwa-ke, uma bengeke, zama ukuhlola ukuthi bayawuvuma yini umbala noma ukusika kwengubo oyikhethile.Enye into okufanele uyigweme ukuhamba ngokweqile ne-makeup yakho ukuze ugqame. Uma umakoti esho ngokucacile, izimpelesi kufanele zinamathele ezinqunu nezipinki ezithonisiwe; kufanele weqe i-lipstick ebomvu.
3. Izivakashi Zigqoke Njengomakoti
Kuzivakashi, zama ukuthola ukuthi izimpelesi zizogqoka kanjani ukuze ugweme ukugqoka njengaye. Ungagqoki noma yini emthunzini ofanayo noma usike ukuze uphephe. Ithimba lomshado libekelwe abangani abaseduze nomndeni wombhangqwana. Ukugqoka njengabo kungenza kubonakale sengathi weqa imingcele, ngisho noma ungaqondile. (2)
Kungcono ukulandela ikhodi yokugqoka uma kukhona. Uma umcimbi ungacacisi kakhulu ngemibala, ungase ufune ukuya kokuthile okungathathi hlangothi, njengokunqunu noma imithunzi engabukeki ifana kakhulu nabahambeli. Ngemuva kokuthola, itimu yomakoti izosetshenziswa, yeqa labo ohlwini lwakho bese uzama ezinye izitayela. Amabhulukwe kanye nezingubo ze-midi ezinemikhono emide zihlala ziphephile futhi ziyizinketho zesitayela emishadweni eminingi.
4. Ukungayithathi Kakhulu Ikhodi Yokugqoka
Ukuzikhipha ekhodini yokugqoka yomshado kungenza isimo sibe nzima kuwo wonke umuntu. Kungase ngisho kubangele umbhangqwana uzizwe ucindezelekile, ikakhulukazi uma ugqoka okuthile okuphambene nezinkolelo zabo. Khumbula ukuthi imishado ingaba isiko, inkolo, noma kokubili.Ngisho noma ungenazo izinkolelo ezifanayo, ukuhlonipha umbhangqwana, ikakhulukazi ngosuku lwabo olukhulu, kubalulekile. Kodwa uma futhi ulandela imikhuba ethile yenkolo namasiko engathinta indlela ogqoka ngayo, kungase kube indaba ehlukile. Zama ukufinyelela umbhangqwana futhi nixoxe ukuthi yiziphi izingubo ohlela ukuzigqoka ukuze bakunikeze uphawu lwabo lokugunyaza. (2)
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi yikuphi, kungcono ukufika endaweni ephakathi noma ulandele ikhodi yokugqoka ekhonjiswe ezimweni eziningi. Uma umbhangqwana wenza isicelo esilula mayelana nombala, ukusikeka, namaphethini, izihambeli zazingathola noma ziboleke izingubo nezicathulo ezifanele zomkhosi othile.
5. Ukungakhethi Izimbali Ezifanele
Kunezinhlobo eziningi zezinhlobo nezitayela ze-bouquet ongakhetha kuzo. Njengomakoti, kuyakulinga ukukhetha uhlobo oluhle kakhulu olungafanelana nempahla yakho noma izimbali zakho ozithandayo. Kodwa kungase kungabi lula kangako ngoba ngisho nokukhetha kwembali kungase kufanekisele into ongeke ufune ukuyisho. (1)
Isibonelo, ama-carnations anemigqa asho ukwenqaba, i-cyclamen isho ukuqeda ubuhlobo, ama-foxgloves asho ukungazenzisi kanti iminduze ewolintshi imelela inzondo. Ezinye izimbali eziningi zingase zibe nencazelo embi, futhi ungase ufune ukuzigwema, ikakhulukazi uma ukholelwa ezeni. 5
Kungumqondo omuhle ukukhawulela ukukhetha kwakho kulezo ezingenalo iphunga elimnandi kakhulu. Uma izintombi ziphethe izimbali, zibuze ukuthi aziguquki kunoma yiluphi uhlobo ukuze wenze izinguquko ezidingekayo. (1) Ngaphezu kwalokho, uma ufuna isixha sakho sihlale sisihle kuwo wonke umkhosi, buza umthengisi wakho wezimbali ukuthi zingahlala isikhathi esingakanani ngaphambi kokuba zibune. Ukugcina ngesixha sezimbali esixhugayo futhi esifayo kungase kungabi ukubukeka okuhle komakoti onamahloni. (1)
6. Ukungabi Nezihlangu Ezingeziwe
Ungase uhlangabezane nokungabi nezicathulo ebusuku noma uzisole ngokugqoka izithende ezingakhululekile. Ngaphandle kwamafulethi ayisipele, kungase kudingeke ubhekane nobuhlungu isikhathi eside noma ulungele ukuhamba ungafake zicathulo. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ungumlobokazi, uyingxenye yabahambeli, noma uyisivakashi, kubalulekile ukuthi ugqoke izicathulo ezifanele emcimbini, kodwa kanjalo nokuletha ipheya eyengeziwe ukuze uthole ukunethezeka.Ngesikhathi somcimbi kanye nezithombe, ukunamathela kunoma yini oyihlelele ngengubo yakho kufanele kube kuhle. Kodwa uma kungakhululeki, kuwumqondo omuhle ukushintshela kumafulethi anethezekile, ikakhulukazi uma uthanda ukudansa. (4)
Isiphetho
Izinsuku zomshado, ikakhulukazi ezendabuko, zingaba nzima ukuzigqoka. Kodwa into eyodwa okumele uyikhumbule wukugqoka ngokweqhaza lakho ngosuku. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uyimpelesi noma isivakashi, umbhangqwana othembisene umshado unokuthile okulindelwe okufanele ukufeza ngosuku lwabo olukhulu. Uma ungumlobokazi, kufanele futhi uqinisekise ukuthi ingubo yakho ihambisana kahle nalokho okufunayo, ukhululekile ukuyigqoka, futhi ihambisana nengqikithi yomshado wakho.
Izithenjwa:
- “6 Amaphutha Ezimbali Zomshado Okufanele Agwenywe,” https://www.marthastewart.com/7970126/wedding-flower-mistakes-to-avoid?slide=1a6e10fc-e12e-49fa-8ad4-2ef1dd524de3#1a6e10fc-e18ad-4 -2ef1dd524de3
- “Izinto Ezingenabulungiswa Kakhulu Ongayenza Emshadweni,” https://www.goodhousekeeping.com/life/g20651278/bad-wedding-etiquette/?slide=37
- "8 Amaphutha Okuziphatha Omshado Okungafanele Uwenze," https://www.marthastewart.com/7849584/wedding-etiquette-mistakes
- "Amaphutha Ama-5 Enziwa Yizo Zonke Intombi," https://www.marthastewart.com/7879608/bridesmaid-mistakes-to-avoid
- "Ulimi Lwezimbali," https://www.thespruce.com/the-language-of-flowers-watch-what-you-say-1402330