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Lungela. Kusukela ngaleso sikhathi, uguqa ngedolo elilodwa kuze kube umdanso wokugcina, ukuhlela umshado wakho cishe kuzodla amahora amaningi wokuvuka kwakho.
Kusukela ekukhetheni ingubo efanelekile yomakoti kuya ekutholeni umklami wezithombe onekhono ukuze adale izimemo ezinhle, ngokuqinisekile kuningi okumelwe ukwenze lapho uhlela umshado wakho. Ngenhlanhla, lesi sihloko siklanyelwe ukusiza omakoti ukuthi bahlele umshado omangalisayo ngokucindezeleka okuncane ngangokunokwenzeka.
1. Dala Isabelomali esingaxoxiswana
Thola isabelomali esinengqondo. Iba nengxoxo—noma ezimbalwa—nomngane wakho womshado nanoma ibaphi abazali okungenzeka banesandla. Yenza ucwaningo oluthile lwe-ballpark ukuze uthole umuzwa wokuthi izinto zibiza malini. Bhekani neqiniso ngesibalo enifika kuso nonke, futhi nicacise ukuthi sizohlukaniswa kanjani.Akekho okufanele angene ezikweletini ukuze akwazi ukukhokhela umshado. (I-Wedding Wire inemithetho ewusizo yesithupha yokwenza imephu yesabelomali).
2. Beka kuqala Okubaluleke Kakhulu Kuwe futhi Ukhohlwe Okunye
Kufanelekile ukuphinda: Beka kuqala. Isabelomali sanoma imuphi usayizi singaqhuma lapho uhlu lokufanele ube nalo lufiphala. Kodwa ukubeka phambili kudlula isabelomali. Wena, isoka lakho, kanye nanoma ibaphi abazali abahililekile bayoba nemibono yabo ngokuthi izinto kufanele zihambe kanjani. Khuluma ngakho—ngokuzolile—futhi unqume ukuthi yini ebaluleke kakhulu, nokuthi yini ozimisele ukuyekethisa kukho.
3. Phatha Okulindelekile.
Okwakho, ingoduso yakho, abazali, izingane zakini, ogogo nomkhulu, abangani, uthola umbono. Imishado yendabuko iklanyelwe ukubandakanya wonke umuntu obalulekile ezimpilweni zakho, ngakho-ke kungokwemvelo ukuthi abantu bajabulele ukuthola indima yabo osukwini olukhulu nakho konke okuholela kulo. Ikakhulukazi uma uhlela umshado wakho ngokwakho, kungani ungadluliseli injabulo yawo wonke umuntu emisebenzini oyiphathisiwe?Nokho, zilungiselele ukuthi izinto zingahambi njengoba ubucabanga. Abantu bangengeza ukuthinta kwabo emsebenzini wabo. Roll nayo. Ingabe uMama wakho uyakuthanda ukuluka? Ingabe uMama wakhe wenza umsebenzi wezandla? Cela uMama wakho ukuthi akukhiloshe izinto ezinhle, bese ucela uMama wakhe ukuthi enze incwadi yesivakashi.
Iningi labantu lizojatshuliswa ukubamba iqhaza osukwini olukhulu. Futhi ukuwagcina ematasa—ikakhulukazi Omama—kuphinde kusho ukuthi uzothola ama-imeyili ambalwa mayelana nokuma kwezinkezo ze-dessert, noma ngabe amaribhoni ohlelo adinga ukugoqwa, nokuthi yimuphi umthunzi wezinyo lendlovu okufanele umgijimi we-aisle abe.
4. I-DIY, Ngokweqiniso.
Akukaze kube khona ithuba elengeziwe Lokwenza Wena ngokwakho kunalapho uhlela umshado wakho. Umbuzo uwukuthi: ingabe lokho ukusebenzisa isikhathi okungcono kakhulu? Ngemva kokwabela umndeni nabangane amaphrojekthi, hlehla bese uhlola. Ingabe nginekhono kumaphrojekthi we-DIY? Ingabe ngifuna ukubopha i-sprig ye-rosemary kumamenyu angu-247? Futhi ngezinga elikhulu, ingabe ngifuna isibopho sokuqashisa ucwaningo ngokukhanyisa, amatafula, izihlalo, abahlukanisi bamagumbi, nokunye okunjalo?
Uma impendulo yanoma iyiphi yalezi ingu-CHA obabazekayo, uzofuna ukucabanga kahle ngokuvolontiya kumaphrojekthi we-DIY.
Kulabo abathanda ukunikeza amaphrojekthi womshado we-DIY ambalwa, cabanga ukusebenzisa injini yokusesha yezithombe njenge-Pinterest noma izithombe ze-Google ukuze uthole amaphrojekthi we-DIY ambalwa alula kodwa anomthelela.
5. Khetha Indawo Ekahle.
Ngemva kokuba izingxoxo zesabelomali seziphelile, khetha indawo yakho. Kungu—ngethemba—izindleko ezinkulu kakhulu ozobhekana nazo, futhi kuzoba isici esikhulu kuzo zonke ezinye izinqumo okudingeka zenziwe.
Izindawo zemishado okungezona ezendabuko ziwulaka lwakamuva, kodwa zingase zibe amaphupho amabi ezinto. Izindawo zendabuko zinezisekelo ezifana namatafula nezihlalo ezikhona ngaphezu kwezinto eziyisisekelo ezingacacile njengamatafula ekhadi lendawo, isheke lamajazi, nezinye izidingo ongeke kudingeke ucabange kabili ngazo.
Izindawo zendabuko nazo zivame ukuba nomdidiyeli womcimbi ongaba yisikhali esiyimfihlo, ikakhulukazi uma ungasebenzisi umhleli womshado. Esikhundleni sokuphotha amasondo akho ukusungula indawo, cabanga ukuphotha amasondo akho kwengeza incazelo. Choreograph umdanso weqembu, usungule kabusha isiko lomndeni noma amabili, sebenzisa isikhathi ubuza uGogo ngomshado wakhe.
6. Nquma Isikhulu.
Justice of the Peace. Umuntu ongokwenkolo. Umngani othathe leso sifundo se-inthanethi. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ukhetha bani, qiniseka ukuthi bayatholakala ngedethi yendawo. Khokha idiphozi uma kunesidingo, futhi uphumule kalula. Esinye isizathu sokubhukha isikhulu kusenesikhathi ukuthi kuye ngohlelo lwakho, ungahlangana naye izikhathi ezimbalwa ngaphambi kosuku olukhulu. Ukubhuka kusengaphambili kuzovumela imihlangano ehlukene nendawo yokuhlela kabusha.Abaphathi bangasiza ukunikeza isikhala nesiqondiso sezihloko ezibalulekile. Ngabe uzoshintsha igama lakho? Nifuna izingane nobabili? Mangaki? Nizophatha kanjani izimali zenu ndawonye? Ingabe ubhala izifungo zakho?
7. Kugcine Kulula
Noma nini lapho othile ethi kuwe: “Kufanele ube no-X,” noma “kufanele wenze u-Y,” ungabanaki. Akulona iqiniso nje. Uma nje izinto eziyisisekelo zimboziwe, ungavumeli noma ubani akuxhaphaze mayelana nokwengeziwe. Futhi kulesi sikhathi samanje, ukuhlelwa komshado kungokwengeziwe. Ungakhohliswa. Wena nesoka lakho niqala impilo yenu yonke ndawonye. Kujabulele futhi ungathuki izinto ezincane ... kakhulu!
Isiphetho
Ngokulandela amathiphu namasu achazwe kulesi sihloko, uzobe usendleleni eya enjabulweni yangemva komshado. Khumbula ukuthi ukubeka ibhajethi ecacile kanye nokucacile okulindelwe ngabantu ababalulekile kuyindlela engcono kakhulu yokugwema ukucindezeleka okungadingekile okuhlobene nomshado.