Ubudlelwano beqiniso nobuhlala njalo akulula ukwakha nokugcina. Yibo bonke ubuciko obudinga ukuzinikela okuqotho kwabalingani ababili. Noma ngabe udlula ezikhathini ezimnyama zomshado wakho futhi uphequlula insizakalo yesehlukaniso ku-inthanethi, awunalo ilungelo lokuqeda lokho okwakhiwa kukho iminyaka. Ngaphandle uma ubudlelwano bakho buletha ingozi kunoma yiliphi ilungu lomndeni wakho, kufanele ubanike amathuba ayikhulu okuphila ukuze baqede. Qoqa wonke amandla akho nesineke futhi uthole indlela efanele yokuthuthukisa umshado wakho nobudlelwano ngokwengeziwe nangokwengeziwe nsuku zonke.
Lungisani Isabelomali Somndeni Ndawonye
Ingxabano yezezimali iyisizathu esiphezulu sokudala imifantu emshadweni futhi iholele esidingweni esisheshayo sezincwadi zesehlukaniso ezisemthethweni. Ngakho-ke, kuyindima ebalulekile ukudweba isithombe sezezimali somndeni wakho ndawonye kusukela ekuqaleni. Nobabili kufanele niqonde ngokucacile ukuthi imali itholwa, isetshenziswa, yongiwa futhi yabelwa kanjani. Uma bobabili abalingani beletha isinkwa emndenini, kuyalulekwa ukuthi yonke imali ihlale ihlangene futhi ingagqamisi ukuthi ubani ohola kakhulu futhi ubani - ngaphansi. Uma nithembana, ningadala ama-akhawunti ahlanganyelwe, ukuze uzakwethu ngamunye abone ukudluliswa kwemali okwenziwa ngakolunye uhlangothi. Gcina yonke into icacile futhi ilungile futhi uhlele kusenesikhathi ukuze ugweme izithiyo zezimali kanye nezezimali ngeke zonakalise umndeni wakho.Gxila Ezintweni Ezinhle
Qaphela ukuthi yonke imibhangqwana ibhekene nezikhathi ezimbi nezinhle. Kungokwemvelo ukuzizwa ungaphezu kwamandla omuntu ngokushada ngolunye usuku futhi wakhe iphakethe lesehlukaniso engqondweni yakho ngolunye usuku. Okubaluleke kakhulu ukunamathela ezintweni ezinhle. Kufanele nidlule kuzo zonke izithiyo ndawonye, nikhumbule konke okuhle okwenzekile futhi okuzokwenzeka kinina maduze nje.
Yeka Okwedlule
Ngamunye wenu unendaba yakhe ngemuva. Ngeke iguqulwe noma isulwe, ngakho-ke into engcono kakhulu ongayenza ukudedela okwedlule futhi ungamoshi ikusasa lenu nobabili. Isimo esifanayo senzeka ngezehlakalo nezenzo zakho ezidlule. Uma ukhululeke ezintweni ezingajabulisi, asikho isidingo sokuzibuyisela ekuphileni futhi ukhumbuze ngokwehluleka okudlule kuzo zonke izingxabano ezilandelayo nomngane wakho womshado. Gxila ekusaseni lakho lamanje nelijabulisayo nobabili esikhundleni sokuvumela okwedlule konakalise yonke into.
Khulisani Enikuthandayo Komunye Nomunye
Nquma ukuthi yini oyithandayo kumlingani wakho bese uzama ukufakaza futhi uyikhumbule nsuku zonke. qala ezintweni ezincane. Uma umthanda epheka, lungiselelani isidlo sakusihlwa ndawonye ngezikhathi ezithile. Uma umthanda ngokuba namasha, hambani niyoqwala izintaba noma nizame imidlalo emisha ndawonye. Cabanga ukuthi yini eyenza uthande umlingani wakho nakakhulu futhi wabelane ngezinto ezijabulisayo kaningi ukuze uthuthukise futhi uqinise umshado wakho.Yabelana futhi Uxoxe
Uma ungathokozile ngento ungabambeleli kuyo. Yabelana ngesikhangiso xoxa ngemizwa yakho nowakwakho. Ungabambeleli ekugxekeni, bhekani ngokujulile odabeni, tholani indima yenu nobabili enkingeni, zama ukuthola ukuvumelana futhi nixazulule yonke into ndawonye. Izinkinga ezincane, ezishiywe zithule, zikhula zibe izinkinga ezinkulu, ezibangela isifiso sokuthola isehlukaniso ku-inthanethi ngaphandle kokubhekana nesimo.
Phumula
Uma ubhekene nokungaboni ngaso linye okukhulu futhi unomuzwa wokuthi kuyakhungathekisa umbhangqwana wakho, kusula konke okuhle phakathi kwenu, ngokuqinisekile udinga ikhefu. Kodwa hhayi ukuphumula ebudlelwaneni kodwa engxoxweni naseseshini yokuxazulula izinkinga. Vele ubeke izinto eceleni niphume ndawonye, zivumele uphumule futhi ukhohlwe inkinga, bese ulala futhi ekuseni kuzoletha ingqondo ecacile kanye nesixazululo esisha senkinga yakho.Qaphela
Beka isikhathi emshadweni wakho nakumlingani wakho. Qaphela izidingo zakhe, akuthandayo kanye nezimkhathazayo. Yiba khona lapho ukuze ameseke, amdumise, akhuthaze, amncome, alalele ngaphandle kokunikeza izeluleko ezihlakaniphe kakhulu. Ukunganakwa kudala igebe phakathi kwabalingani futhi kubhidlize ubudlelwano, ngakho thola isikhathi sokushada.
Hlukanisa Imisebenzi
Ungafaki amalebula komunye nomunye. Ungumama wekhaya, ngingumondli wekhaya, senza esingakwenza futhi okufanele sikwenze. Yabelana ngezibopho zakho kanye nemisebenzi yakho. Basizane. Futhi zama ukwenza ngisho izinto ezilula ndawonye. Ukusekela nokubambisana esimisweni kuzogcina izinto ezijulile ziphila.
Shisa Umlilo Wakho
Ingxenye eseduze yomshado iyinto ebalulekile okufanele sizikhathaze ngayo. Ukuba nocansi oluhle olungokomzwelo kuzogcina umuzwa wokuxhumana okujulile phakathi kwenu nobabili. Ngisho nokuthinta okuncane, ukumamatheka, ukuqabula noma ukuncoma kuzovela umuzwa wokuthi ungowakhe, futhi ungowakho.Nikeza Isikhala Somuntu Siqu
Ukwenza konke ndawonye kumnandi, kodwa ngezinye izikhathi udinga ukuphumula komunye nomunye. Ukuchitha isikhathi ngokwehlukana, uwedwa kanye nabangane bakho kuwumkhuba omuhle. Kuzokunika umuzwa wokwethembana phakathi kwenu nobabili kanye nomuzwa wokuzihlonipha. Ubudlelwano akufanele bubambezele, kufanele bukwenze uzizwe ukhululekile.
Sekela Njengesidingo Esiyinhloko
Wena nomlingani wakho kufanele nazi, ukuthi kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ubhekene nani. Mhlawumbe wonke umuntu akakunaki futhi umelene nawe, ungakwazi njalo ukuthola ihlombe eliqinile elisekela umlingani wakho ozoncika kulo. Ukwesekwa okuqotho kanye nesifiso sokusizana kufanele kube umnyombo wobudlelwano benu.Gcina Izixhumanisi Zomndeni
Izihlobo kungaba nzima ukubhekana nazo, kodwa khumbula ukuthi isimo sakho sengqondo sokubekezelela umndeni womngane wakho womshado singase sibe isenzo esihle kakhulu sothando nokusekela okuvela ohlangothini lwakho. Zama ukugcina ubudlelwano obuhle nezihlobo ezivela nhlangothi zombili kodwa ungazivumeli ukuthi zingenele empilweni yomndeni wakho.
Iba nesineke
Nobabili ninezinsuku ezinhle nezimbi noma ngesizathu esibucayi noma ngaphandle kwesizathu nhlobo. Ukubekezela kufanele kube isikhali sakho esiyimfihlo ngokumelene nezinsuku ezimbi. Zama ukusekela nokuqonda esikhundleni sokugcina ingxabano ingekho. Lokhu ngokuqinisekile kuzowusindisa umshado wakho.Hlelani Ikusasa Ndawonye
Ukuze nibe nobudlelwano obuhlala njalo kufanele nibone ikusasa lenu ndawonye. Setha izinhloso ezifanayo, phupheni ndawonye futhi nibungaze izimpumelelo zenu ezincane nezinkulu ukuze uzwe ukuxhumana nempumelelo efanayo.